A Prayer of Forgiveness and Reconciliation though not of Reuniting

Dearly Beloved, I understand what you (acquaintance, friend, group of friends, family member, parent, sibling, siblings, son, daughter, entire family, colleague, superior, employee, everyone at a place of work, spiritual teacher/adviser, lover, romantic partner, significant other, spouse, soul mate, spiritual or faith community, sangha, household community, local community, other type of community, country, etc.) did and the reasons why.

I have compassion for you and feel empathy and Loving Kindness for you and I still invite you into my heart where some expression or form of real love still burns radiantly and brilliantly there for you.

And because of what I have, for now, determined to be my highest good, I have decided to place physical distance between us, and perhaps either some or much emotional distance between us as well, though not any spiritual distance. That is because I have come to realize and understand that the underlying power of true spirituality is simply love; simple love, and that this aspect of love never need be withheld either from you nor anyone.

I have felt hurt and perhaps mistreated by you. You did not seek to adequately understand, nor respect, nor embrace my full humanness which includes my vulnerability, my innocence, my childlike openness to you, nor my deep capacity for love and understanding, and I forgive you for all of that and so much more. And I forgive myself. And I forgive the circumstance. And I forgive the past. And I forgive any part of the present that also seeks or needs forgiveness.

And I now release that past. I free it from all encumbrances. I set it all free now. I embrace and make love to each present moment. And in doing so I realize that I now also set myself free. 

And So It Is! Blessed Be! Hallelujah!

Amen!

A Necessary Reminder: Martin Luther King Jr's Steps/Principals of Nonviolence

THE PRINCIPLES: 

1. Nonviolence is a way of life for courageous people.
• It is active nonviolent resistance to evil.
• It is assertive spiritually, mentally, and emotionally.
• It is always persuading the opponent of the justice of your cause.

2. Nonviolence seeks to win friendship and understanding.
• The end result of nonviolence is redemption and reconciliation.
• The purpose of nonviolence is the creation of the Beloved Community.

3. Nonviolence seeks to defeat injustice, not people.
• Nonviolence holds that evildoers are also victims.

4. Nonviolence holds that voluntary suffering can educate and
transform.
• Nonviolence willingly accepts the consequences of its acts.
• Nonviolence accepts suffering without retaliation.
• Nonviolence accepts violence if necessary, but will never inflict it.
• Unearned suffering is redemptive and  has  tremendous educational and
transforming possibilities.
• Suffering can have the power to convert the enemy when reason fails.

5. Nonviolence chooses love instead of hate.
• Nonviolence resists violence of the spirit as well as of the body.
• Nonviolent love gives willingly, knowing that the return might be hostility.
• Nonviolent love is active, not passive.
• Nonviolent love does not sink to the level of the hater.
• Love for the enemy is how we demonstrate love for ourselves.
• Love restores community and resists injustice.
• Nonviolence recognizes the fact that all life is interrelated.

6. Nonviolence believes that the universe is on the side of justice.
• The nonviolent resister has deep faith that justice will eventually win.

THE STEPS:

Step 1:  Gather Information
Learn all you can about the problems you see in your community through the media, social
and civic organizations, and by talking to the people involved.

Step 2:  Educate Others
Armed with your new knowledge, it is your duty to help those around you, such as your
neighbors,  relatives, friends  and co-workers,  better  understand the problems facing
society.  Build a team of people devoted to finding solutions.  Be sure to include those who
will be directly affected by your work.

Step 3:  Remain Committed 
Accept that you will face many obstacles and challenges as you and your team try to
change society.  Agree to encourage and inspire one another along the journey.

Step 4:  Peacefully Negotiate
Talk with both sides.  go to the people in your community who are in trouble and who are
deeply hurt by society’s ills.  Also go to those people who are contributing to the breakdown
of a peaceful society.  Use humor, intelligence and grace to lead to solutions that benefit
the greater good.

Step 5:  Take Action Peacefully
This step is often used when negotiation fails to produce results, or when people need to
draw broader attention to a problem.  it can  include tactics such  as  peaceful
demonstrations, letter-writing and petition campaign.

Step 6:  Reconcile
Keep all actions and negotiations peaceful and constructive.  Agree to disagree with some
people and with some groups as  you work to improve society.  Show all involved the
benefits of changing, not what they will give up by changing.

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Today's Wisdom from Crow Dog Man

Every move is a prayer. -Crow Dog man

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